Yesterday was a very up and down day.
Up: By 8:15 a.m., I had the house to myself.
Down: The upstairs bathroom really needed to be cleaned.
Up: I plurked most of the morning away.
Down: I had to haul laundry over to my in-laws because DearDR is pretty sure our washer is leaking.
Up: I made a big pot of corn chowder for lunch. It was delicious.
Down — way, way down: I found out someone in my department had been “temporarily” laid off.
Up: I got a car loan.
That’s pretty much how it went.
And then I sat at my in-laws — whose dryer takes much, much too long to dry clothes — and watched Mamma Mia!. I think I was crying by the third (maybe fourth) song.
Maybe it was the ups and downs of the day thus far. Maybe it’s hormones, or stress — or both. But the story really touched me, too. Some of those Abba songs are very poignant.
I cried because I’m a mom, and a daughter, and a mom with daughters.
I cried for the friendships between the three older best friends, which reminds me of the relationship with my two best friends. I cried because I don’t get to see them enough, and if I were Meryl Streep in Mamma Mia!, all that the two best friends did for her in that movie, N & M would do for me. In a heartbeat. And I for them.
And, you know, there’s the whole “a year older” thing. And the fact that I cry over just about anything, including Puff the Magic Dragon.
My birthday plans: I got to go have dinner with the Burgh Moms (and two dads!) last night, which was a treat, as usual. Hang with my girls at home; if it’s nice enough, play in the snow. Do a little more laundry next door. Go out to dinner as a family. And then tomorrow, I will get to see the Steelers play in the Super Bowl. And, I hope, see them win.
A sixth Super Bowl for the city would be the best birthday present ever.
Well, that and some really good green beans.